Boundaries always need to be clear and definite. It is the intensity of your delivery that creates the difference in how your child experiences the boundary.
Yelling, scolding, intimidation, or shaming a child translates into the message “no one is in control here”. Calmness provides clarity. Read More→
Transition times are often stressful for parents and children. Your child may experience transitions in many different ways. Their response may be of great excitement and anticipation which puts them in an emotionally charged or at the other end of the continuum, they might be so engrossed in their current activity that they are not ready to stop and move to another activity. If you have more than one child they will likely not both be ready at the same time. Read More→
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I wish I had heard about this system long ago because it would've helped me with raising my now15-yr old daughter. I have tried and seen for myself how much easier it is to use the 5 steps in disciplining/teaching all of my kids including my boys ages 5 and 2 than the way I was raised. Don't get me wrong, it takes work to change your way of thinking! But once you do, and learn how to utilize the 5steps, you'll see nothing but positive results as I've seen with my own experiences! No screaming, spanking or stressing! I'm all for avoiding all three! Tonia Capitulo, Livermore, CA |
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